“BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics.” Wikipedia
A little bit of being tied up, a little bit of being spanked and it could also be a lot of it. If done correctly it can be fun, exciting, erotic and orgasmic. Ensure that you explore this with someone you know and trust and know your boundaries.
Before you start playing make sure you understand what is expected and that it falls within your frame of what you are willing to try. Communicate your expectations and your needs clearly to avoid any misunderstandings and avoid getting hurt unnecessarily.
Start slowly, try being tied up with different mediums and pick one you prefer, for example cuffs, scarves, ropes, plastic ties……. Make sure you have a safe word or phrase you can use at any given time you are uncomfortable.
Have fun and be safe. We will explore this a bit more as time goes by.
Sexy couples at play!
